Don’t Take Things Personally to Get More Out of Life

Don’t Take Things Personally to Get More Out of Life

Several years ago, a friend boarded and kept an umbrella cockatoo in his home. The umbrella cockatoo always had pink lipstick marks on the white feathers of his forehead from his doting human’s kisses…. There was no question in the my friend’s mind that this bird was totally adored. Then one day, the owner’s husband phoned to ask my friend to help find a home for the bird. He was stunned, then realized the sound he could  hear was the owner sobbing in the background. The husband explained briefly that the parrot — for the first time in the many years the owner had him — had just bitten his mistress. He said she was so upset because she felt the bite was proof the bird didn’t love her anymore. My friend tried valiantly to get her to talk to him, to explain that these things happen, and to not get rid of a beloved pet of many years just because of one incident…. But she was too upset to even talk to my friend. The husband promised to give her my message and to ask her to call me when she calmed down. I never heard from her again. When you take things personally, you feel offended, and your reaction is to defend your beliefs and create conflicts. Do you take too personally what people say to you? Do you feel offended by remarks, actions or behavior of other people? Do you take every minor event too seriously, letting it limit or frighten you?   Did you know that quite often the offense is not real, and the...
The Power of Your Word in Discovering Yourself

The Power of Your Word in Discovering Yourself

A man had told half-truths about the local rabbi that, overcome by remorse, he begged the rabbi to forgive him. “And, Rabbi, tell me how I can make amends.” The rabbi sighed,”Take two pillows, go to the public square and there cut the pillows open. Wave them in the air. Then come back.” The man quickly went home, got two pillows and a knife, hastened to the square, cut the pillows open,waved them in the air and hastened back to the rabbi’s chambers. “I did just what you said, Rabbi!” “Good.” The rabbi smiled. “Now, to realize how much harm is done by gossip, go back to the square…” “And?” Asked the man. “And collect all your feathers.”The Rabbi replied. Your Word Has the Power to Bring Passion or Poison Very simply the power of your word is to use your Word in the direction of love and truth Your Word (upper case) has to do with the power you have to create through every kind of expression you make. You create through multiple types of expression including emotions, attitude, actions, what you refrain from, and what you express your faith in. The word is a force; it is the power you have to communicate, to think, and thereby to create the events in your life.  The word is the most powerful tool you have, but like a sword with two edges, your word can create the most beautiful dream or your word can destroy everything around you.  One edge of the sword is the misuse of the word, which creates a living hell.  The other edge is the...
The Key to Self Improvement

The Key to Self Improvement

 An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. “A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy. “It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil – he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.” He continued, “The other is good – he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you – and inside every other person, too.” The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf will win?” The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed” The mind is so full of many thoughts. For a long time I fed the thoughts of self-doubt, fear, guilt, and envy. You guessed it, I realized I was feeding the wrong wolf. I just returned from Teotihuacán, northeast of Mexico City. I went to study the Toltec Indians and their understanding of self-improvement. The Aztecs respected the Toltecs as “men of knowledge,” and rewrote some of their own history to show they were related to the Toltecs. The word Toltec is said to come from the Nahuatl language of that area, and means “master builder” or “artist. They speak about the voice in our head that wants to tear us down as the ‘predator.” Part of their spiritual journey was to be in touch with the divine power within that would become so strong that the predator would leave. I went with a group of seekers for a week. My...
Favorite Quotes About Living Life to the Fullest

Favorite Quotes About Living Life to the Fullest

Do you ever desire to have a quote about living  life to the fullest? Sometimes we need a inspiration to get us motivated. Here are some quotes that have helped me.   You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream. – C. S. Lewis Fall seven times, stand up eight. – Japanese Proverb Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. – Mark Twain We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing. – George Bernard Shaw Yesterday is ashes. Tomorrow is green wood. Only today does the fire burn brightly. – Eskimo Saying The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek. – Joseph Campbell It’s  easy to say “I Want to Live Life to the Fullest” and it’s another to implement it. Living Life to the Fullest in 3 Easy Steps Other Quotes About Living Life to the Fullest Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth. – John F. Kennedy Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it. – Confucius Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood. – Helen Keller To go against the dominant thinking of your friends, of most of the people you see every day, is perhaps the most difficult act of heroism you can perform. – Theodore H. White We must be willing...
Will Tomorrow Be Too Late to Get More Out of Life?

Will Tomorrow Be Too Late to Get More Out of Life?

Have you ever wondered what you would change in your life if you found out you had only 10 years to live? Do you know the song “One Day to Late “by Skillet? Here are some of the powerful lyrics to the song     Tick tock, hear the clock count down, Wish the minute hand could be rewound; So much to do, and so much I need to say, Will tomorrow be too late? Time passes by, Never thought I’d wind up, One step behind; Now I’ve made my mind up… Today, I’m gonna try a little harder; Gonna make every minute last longer; Gonna learn to forgive and forget, ‘Cause we don’t have long, gonna make the most of it; Today, I’m gonna love my enemies; Reach out to somebody who needs me; Make a change, make the world a better place, ‘Cause tomorrow could be one day too late… One day too late… One day too late… Do you find yourself putting things off that you really want to do today? The words from this song are thought provoking. Gonna learn to forgive and forget, Cause we don’t have long, gonna make the most of it; Cause tomorrow could be one day too late… Time Comes Whether We’re Ready or Not We all find excuses for putting off things that are important to us.We get bogged down with every day tasks. They always say the “squeaky wheel gets the oil.” We can easily lose focus on what is really important and find ourselves giving our energy to things that squeak the loudest. Sometimes just because a...
I’mpossible to Make a Change in Your Life

I’mpossible to Make a Change in Your Life

  Notice if you put a small ‘ in the word IMPOSSIBLE  it becomes I’M POSSIBLE. With one little change the idea of something being impossible all of the sudden is possible. That is the way in most things that we think are impossible. If we can shift or add one little element, things change and we see a new possibility. Helen Keller lived in a world of silence and of physical darkness. Many people pitied her because she did not have the full enjoyment of her bodily senses as they did. But she said, “It is because they do not see the golden chamber in my life where I dwell delighted; for dark as my path may seem to them, I carry a magic light in my heart.” She said, “Faith, the spiritual strong searchlight, illumines the way, and although sinister doubts lurk in the shadow, I walk unafraid toward the Enchanted Wood where the foliage is always green, where joy abides,where nightingales nest and sing, and where life and death are one in the Presence of the Lord.” Mountains of envy, despondency, and self-pity are in jeopardy when that kind of faith is around. Faith that gives one the joy of expectancy is a mighty faith. And yet one cannot expect that every mountain will be removed from his or her life or from the world. Some will remain regardless of faith’s might. But even these may cease to be obstacles to abundant living if one has a faith in a greater power that can guide us. George A. Buttrick asks, “What is faith?” and then answers,...